Mum was taken to hospital and we found out she had a stroke.

We have just been made aware that it may be possible that with the stroke may have come diminishing capacity, We want to ensure that mum is properly looked after and that her financial position is not compromised. All siblings hold the POA.  

What I can acheive when I know how?

At different stages in our lives we want different things, so we notice things that go with what  it is we want. You would look at this straw and wonder.. What on earth would you want that for? That possibly goes with what you do, others may wonder BUT,,, it is important to you and that is what matters.