When life is OK, and you can just coast along. That is just what we do. travel our journey without too much concern as to the direction we are putting ourselves on. Then sometimes it is the sands of time move in our direction, or it may be an event that makes us stop to think, it changes what we see and sometimes it even changes the way we see it. If we feel fear, it can stop us, if we feel desperation, that can also stop us too. This is usually the time we ask for help.