You will know when you know.

Have you ever been in a position where you have just lived your life one day at a time, not taking much notice of what is around you, thinking all is fine  – really to be honest, not really noticing whether it is fine or not, just going along. THEN, life gives you a nudge, just a little one. And if we were really smart we would take notice, however most of us ignore warning signs or we mask them with excuses. We feel fine, there is nothing to concern ourselves with.

Well, is that really the case? Sometimes we are intent on just doing what we beleive needs to be done, that we do not take care of what really needs to be done. We are busy, sometimes too busy so we take care of the urgent rather than the important. Life will then give us a reality check , one that is impossible to ignore. And that can come as words from a friend, an occasion, an incident, it can hit you so hard that it forces you to stop and take heed, NOW is the time to listen, take yourself to a quiet place and have a conference with yourself.

Ask yourself some questions and be really honest with your responses. You see this, is your life, and it should be important to you. The quality of your questions and your responses will determine your future and believe it or not, others can benefit from your choices.

Strange that: you have what it takes to change the way you are heading, (if you want to). It takes a decision, It takes taking yourself seriously, it takes believing in your possibilities, it takes time, conviction, it takes single mindedness, however more than anything, it takes knowing it is something worth fighting for. When you make that decision and act on it you will find that you are confronted with opposition, not everyone thinks the same way you do. So here is the crunch:

  • Is your decision based on what others think?
  • Is your decision what you really want?
  • Have you done enough research that you are  confident with your choice?
  • Are you prepared to do what it takes?
  • Are you prepared to make the changes required?
  • Are you prepared to change your mind if you need to?
  • Are you ready for a brighter future?

You see, you will know when you know, you will look forward to  more changes as you see changes. Life begins to become exciting, an air of expectation fills your days, exasperation comes, and you start your life again. Every day is filled with new opportunities, new conquests and you feel good. You have been the change in your life.

You know that you know.

Enjoy your life today and make it better for yourself and those around you.

“Failure, when analysed, will provide the building blocks for future successes that will be far greater than the failure itself”    – Steven K Scott